Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Any advice??help!?

my bf, who ive been with for quite a while, just got back from a yr tour in iraq. it was his second time going. we dont seem to agree on anything anymore, and everyday i end up crying in despair, i really want this to work with me and him.has anyone else been in this situation before? what do you think i should do? how do i save my relationship??? i love him so much, but somedays i wonder if its worth all the stress and fighting. i could use any words of encouragement at this point.Any advice??help!?
there gotta be something you agree on that's where you start let that be the brickAny advice??help!?
You need to weigh your options. Pro's and Con's! make a list of everything good about your relationship and everything bad and then figure out which one you have most of and go with it.
Wow I am worried about me and bf too. It's scary to know that you 2 drifted apart. I would encourage couple counseling. My sister and her bf drifted apart and couple couseling helped them to reconnect. They ahve been married for 5 years now.
the same thing happened to my friend who's boyfriend when to iraq. he probably just needs some time to cool off from the trip. maybe just keep things light and keep more to yourself for a while. i know its probably hard to do that now that he's finally back, but being in iraq can be tough. if you love him and he loves you, give it time, he'll come around.
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