Girl Troubles, NEED ADVICE HELP ME!!!!!!

Ok ive become very close with one of my chic friends, were both 22, and well were spooning and started doing other things and picking up alot, were just closest friends could be as friends with benifits, only one problem she just recently about a month ago broke up with her bf of 5 years, and she wants to live her life a bit, im not stopping her because were not going out and i cant rule her life, thing is she wants to pick up my best friend from highskool days ';were not so close anymore'; because she thinks his cute, i told her how i felt about it and said it would make me feel weird and prob destroy what me and her have going, but she said ';I want to do it so i will'; i said if she did i cant asure her that i wouoldnt end what we did completely, thing is i really dont want to I have it awesome she is tops and spoons me practically every night and we have seen each other every day for last 3 weeks, were just so close and intermit and we both love it and dont want it to end just wondering what people would do if they were me? i mean i LOVE what me and her have its awesome but her picking up my best mate would do my head in. Just want to know what others would do in my shoes. Neither me or her want to go out with each other because we dont want to be in relationships also, some advice would be great. cheersGirl Troubles, NEED ADVICE HELP ME!!!!!!
Atm you have it easy all the benefits of a gf but no moaning woman to nag you or any of the other relationship stuff.





You dont want to go out with her so you have no call to stop her from going out with anyone else!





Either ask her out or stop complaining when she wants to get something with someone else.





Not many girls are happy with just the sex part of a relationship and will usually look for more. If she looking to pick up your mate is that not showing does want to be in relationship?





good luckGirl Troubles, NEED ADVICE HELP ME!!!!!!
Dude be thank full you got friends with benefit's if you want her get get with her .if not thin don't be mad if she moves on . just tell her u will be ok with it as long as she don't stop your thing with her ';know what i mean';
It obvious that you love this friend of yours, why don't you just tell her.
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Um, you aren't ready for a relationship?


But you'd be jealous if she was?


I think that's a huge sign that you want to stay and grow closer over time, but she's making it clear that she doesn't want to. It must be that she's just looking for a bit of fun, whereas you want to gradually get closer. I think you should back off her for a while and when she's where you are, then you can try again and your problem is solved.





(note:- by saying you wanna get closer i dont nessecarily mean a relationship.)