I need Friendship Advice, Help Please?

My friend [who shares my name] is SO concieted, and on MY birthday she wanted to have me waiting around for her friends to help me celebrate my birthday, her friends inculde people i dont know, people i dont like and people i dont talk to. Now, on my birthday i knew that if i even went to see her i would have cursed and been in a really s****y mood, so i didnt go with her and HER friends, and i let them wait for me while i went and had fun with MY friends,


now, when i see her what do i do?


i know if she says something i dont like that im gonna flip


i know that if and when i do flip she had like alot of family that will willingly come beat me up


i need a mature thing to do,


a mature way to handle this, cause im drawing blanks.


PLEASE HELP


p.s. i dont even like her that much as a friend anywayI need Friendship Advice, Help Please?
It is important for you to chill, so I would say you would want to avoid her and give yourself some time to let the matter be blown away like the wind.





After all, as you implied, she is not that kind of a friend whom you cannot live without anyway. Also, you can make use of this time to rethink and consider this friendship, while making new friends and enjoying time with your own friends too.I need Friendship Advice, Help Please?
Call her first. And if she asks what happened to you, just tell her that you didn't want to spend your birthday with a bunch of people that you really didn't know or care to be around. And that it was very inconsiderate of her to actually expect you to wait on them. And if she says something that you don't like, just hang up on her. That way you don't have to go ballistic on her. And you won't get beat up.
I'd tell her as kindly as possible that lately she hasn't been very nice to you and that you didn't want to enjoy your b-day with ppl u didn't know. If they do beat you up, they will get in so much trouble, but you will finally have her off your back. You have to choose. Do you want to suffer for a long time or for a little. I know it's hard