this girl that iv been going out with for 2 1/2 years said to me ';do u think it would be a good idea to cheat on each other'; i thought that might of ment that she wanted to break up but then she also sad ';but we'll still be going out'; so i'm really ******* confused GIRLS PLZ HELPI NEED RELATIONSHIP ADVICE HELP (GIRLS ONLY PLZ)?
Talk to her about it thats the only way you're going to know, all girls are different what it might mean for some will be different for others.I NEED RELATIONSHIP ADVICE HELP (GIRLS ONLY PLZ)?
yeah i would think that she has a desire to be with some other guy other than you. She might still love you but that doesn't stop her from wishing to be with another guy. I think you should talk to her and ask her why she asked you those questions. She might tell you that yeah it means that she wants to break up but hey don't see it from the negative side ....see it from the positive side. In other words is better if she tells you that she wants it to be over cause if time goes by then it will hurt you more. Why waste time with a girl that you know doesn't love and doesn't respect you because she wants to cheat on you and still be going out with you, Sorry but that's how people get aids. I don't know if y'all had sex already or not...but i don't think you should go out with a girl like that. Unless you the Type of guy who doesn't care about your health and about being with a girl who you know might not love you anymore.
Good luck.
to me, ';we'll still be going out'; can mean one or a combination of three things:
1) she wants to take a ';break'; and see other people while still keeping you on the side,
2) she's bisexual and wants to fulfill her curiosity, or
3) she wants to have a threesome.
just talk to her about it and ask her to be honest with you. only she knows what she meant to say.
Seems like she wants to go have sex with other men while still have you to go back too. Maybe she is bored with your sex life so wants to go out and find fun with another man. Try changing your sex up a bit. I wouldn't allow her to go and have sex with other men. That would really bother me if my man said that to me. Does she really love you? Because if you really love someone you wouldn't ask that.
Honestly, she might not be into you anymore. I DON'T THINK IT'S A GOOD IDEA. Either she has already has men in mind or she wants to see what you would say. I know how some girls have their little ways of trying to see what a guy would say. But seriously, talk to her.
Umm...well....
This doesn't sound so good for you, buddy. Maybe she's just thinking aloud. But even if this was the case, her thoughts obviously aren't in your best interest. Talk to her. Find out if she's feeling hurt/rejected by something you did and just trying to get revenge. Good luck.
then it wouldn't be considered ';cheating'; you would then have an open relationship. personally i could never. some people can though. i would talk to her and figure out what she really meant by it, sounds like she already has. but no need to jump to conclusions.
Relax...she is probably testing you out. To see may be if you are cheating on her. And if you think she is cheating on you, start noticing things. Has she been ignoring you? Or looks down when she is talking to you? Than you should be worried...
Sounds like she wants to like, be a swinger. Meaning be with you for a relationship, but like, do other people for fun. That would creep me out. Say no if you don't want to be like that.
Hey.thats a dumb question and if i where u i would talk with her and c wat she thinks bout ur guys realationship.also answer my questions if u can.
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