Wednesday, December 23, 2009

I need some advice, help, horrible situation?

Okay my live-in boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year. We both have had a rough child hood but it's like were from different sides of the world. For example, my family is all about love, no matter what. But his dad acts like Steve (the bf) ruined his life. Steve developed SEVERE Degenerative Disk Disease at only 24 (40 is too young to have it) His doctor told him that he is too messed up to work and he applied for SSI but got denied. His dad has to pay for his pain meds. I've just never been in an environment that was so hostile, even the poor little dog's got anger problems. I know that this is alot for Steve to go through and we are just trying to get out on our own right now, but the way he treats me, there is alot to be desired. I'm not sure if it's just the situation were in, or if it's him. All I know is that when I wake up next to him in the morning, I have a big smile on my face, when he wakes up, he tells me to move over. Is it possible to love someone too much?I need some advice, help, horrible situation?
wow, that is a tough judgement call but the fact is that the environment makes the person who they are. Just because the enviornment changes does not necessarily mean that the person will change who they are. it sounds to me like you are hoping that the new enviornment will change him to be someone else that you would like to be with. I would think that would not be a viable way to find a mate. People change but unfortunately few will change to be who we want them to be just becaust they live somewhere else. I would find someone that is who I want in their current environment.I need some advice, help, horrible situation?
I would question the word LOVE when you talk about this relationship. People are generally a product of their upbringing. Know the truth and the truth sets you free. Question yourself '; does this relationship enhance MY being?'; Why tangle yourself up in a situation like this? Distance yourself the sooner the better.
He sounds like a jerk! Disease or not, you don't sound happy. If this is the way things are at this point in the relationship that's how things will remain unless he wants to change. But he sounds like he may need to talk to a professional because he is taking his frustration out on you.
Well guess what, even though it may sound like a terrible thing to do it is time for you to leave that situation and get yourself into one that doesnt include treating you like crap just because he gets the same thing from his family. Sometimes people who are treated like he is go out of their way to insure they dont treat people the same way. Unfortunately he never heard of that so out you go and move on to someone who will treat you better
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