Ok kinda complicated. I just met this girl 1 week and a half ago. We went out and had a great time, We have since hung out 3 times and we slept together after the last date and it was really passionate, she kissed me and touched me afterward kinda like she loved me(thats how it felt anyways). I even sent her flowers at her work today, I am really hung up on this girl and can't get her out of my head. She says that she likes me alot but doesn't want to rush into a relationship too quickley and she doesn't want to get for the wrong reasons. I had just 1 month ago gotten out of a 2 year relationship 2 years ago that when it was over hurt me pretty badly. I told her all about the situation with my last relationship. I told her how much I like her and the fact that I can't get her out of my head. I think she just might be afraid that she is a rebound girl, but I really want to get involved with her, what is she thinking? How can we become boyfriend/girlfriend? What is going on?Need girl advice, help me read her mind?
Go easy ..try to take her to few more dates without discussing ur past ..I think sometimes girls want to hear about themselves not about ex ...try to make her feel special
treat her special ...but don't look desperate ..simple small romantic gestures ...like single rose bud a day ,sometimes good night and good morning small calls ...
and try to relax ,,, jumping on to her can scare her so give her in between
space too
Best of luckNeed girl advice, help me read her mind?
You are probably right. She is probably afraid of getting hurt. She must think that you are still hurt and you need more time to get over your last g/f. Telling her how you feel is a good thing, but showing her would prove it to her. She is right for wanting to take things slow. Just be patient and see where things go. Don't try to push her.
I think she's a little scared because you're opening up too fast. Slow down, and let things happen naturally. You both obviously like eachother.... so take your time.
the last thing you want to do is push her away. if she isnt ready dont scare her. i think if i were her and i was afraid of bieng rebound girl id do the same . and to know you were sincere is seeing the respect and patience id feel significant about.
honestly for one, the flowers were a bad idea. i know that women love flowers and it is a great gesture but it is way too strong way too fast. that is something to save for later on down the road. if you can get her to talk to you make your coversations short and sweet. a quick phone call to let her know that you are interested (without saying'; i am interseted';) and end the call fairly quickly as though you have something that you need to get to. if you seem busy, she doesn't feel as though you are just sitting there giving all of your time to her(that gesture again is for later down the road). you always have to leave with her wanting more, you can't just lay it all out on the table it will make them bored real quick and it will scare them away.
Th only way to know what she is really thinking about you, her love life, and what she wants the relationship to be is to ask her, and if you don't feel comfortable asking her straight up you could have a mutual friend ask or send her an anonymous message using http://hikkp.com my friend used it to find out what this girl wanted out of his relationship with her and she said she wanted to be in a serious relationship with him but she just wasn't ready for it, so a couple of weeks later she said she felt ready to be committed so they are now happy, I would try it , And i wish you the best of luck
The only way to read someone's mind is to crush their head and smear their brain out in a thin layer.
But if you don't want to go to prison you should probably learn to communicate verbally instead.
Its cool you like her and can't get her out of your head, but as far as telling her...i'd tone that stuff down a bit and see how it plays out. That could be a little too much information for her at this juncture of the relationship and could scare her off. Don't come on too strong and lay low and let her come to you at times...if she likes you then everything will fall into place.
ask her honestly if there is a chance that you will be in a serious relationship or maybe shes just in it for a good time
Take your time. I agree don't rush into a relationship. Don't hang out everyday. Just take it slow. Don't spill your soul out too fast either.
Okay 1rst off she's a freak but you probably already know that.She probably had some of her own situations to in the past and it's probably hard for her to trust and go with another boy.You should ask her if there is anything that she wants to talk about concerning this situation.
Communication is the best way to figure out what she is thinking maybe she thinks because you slept together that you dont want anything serious just open up to her more about what you want and she will tell you without you having to read her mind
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