were going to that concert on wednesday 45 mins away and i want to go but i dont want to ride up there with my dad and everyone. Even thoe he cant drink its still a possiblity that he could go off, be an asshole, road rage ect. He will be the driver and the othere adults will be drinking and i honestly dont feel comfotable with him being the driver. I asked my g-parents if they would take me but they refuse. I want to go just not ride up with my dad n everyone i want to feel be safe and reasure that i will be. My dad always starts **** when we go on family outing,
if i were my sister my grandparetns would deffinitly do it(Help! serious answers only please) some advice/ help with this situation, out of control father. ?
Just fall sleep wit headphones on...even if you're not really sleeping. If he starts acting crazy, just pretend like ur not awake. Move out as soon as u turn 18 and try not to become an angry alcoholic like ur dad...and don't date guys like your dad either! I had a lot of issues being raised in that kind of environment and therapy helped me a lot...(Help! serious answers only please) some advice/ help with this situation, out of control father. ?
Tell him straight up. Say that you are worried that he will do these things. If he gets angry about that, don't be afraid of him and keep a strong stance, make your point felt. If he gets violent, whip out a can of mace and spray him in the face!
Just go with the flow. Play things by year. Don't resist or show signs that you do not want to comply with your dad driving the car. If anything bad happens make sure you take control of the situation.
ask your sister to ask your grandparents. if she asks them you have a better chance. or try asking a friend to take you. or take the bus. or ask your mom.
i'm really sorry hun, good luck though.
If u r really concerned don't go. have a sleep over with my friend. i have a best friend in that situation. its not worth it.
ask your sister to go , and get her to ask your grandparents if you can drive both of you :D)
ask your sister to ask them for you :D easy enough if they do listen to her then that should work
Tell him to not.
Or take a taxi
Maybe if you could spell in english I could understand the question...
do you have a mother you could turn to for advice? if not then i say you have three choices.
1- take a train there and back, or a bus, but you might need someone to take you there/home from the station
2- go to the concert (hopefully no one will be drunk before) and if you are concerned about how much your father has drank, like way too much that could endanger you, then call the police. the will not let your father drive home drunk and they will try to find an alternative for you.
3- dont go. is this one concert really risk possibly losing your life?
goodluck ..
This is a tough spot when you feel that you are not as wanted as your other siblings. You have three choices. you can decide not to go so that you wont have to deal with it at all, but you miss out on the concert obviously .2 You can reach out to a close friend to attend the concert with you and ride with them. Or you can just take your chances riding with your family.. There is nothing harder than not feeling safe with your own family and i can only imagine how you feel. But always remember someones got it much worse than you. These are the things in life that could either make us better as a person or in the end break us down. No matter what you decide keep your head up. Everything happens for a reason. ;)
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