Parental advice help :)?

My mom is not letting me go on vacation and sleep over etc with my boyfriend in order to prevent us from having sex, if i told her i already had sex will that make her ease up on me? or the opposite?Parental advice help :)?
You forgot to mention your age.


I would not allow my daughters to go on vacations with their boyfriends. There is a difference between knowing your child is having sex or going to have sex then making it available for them to have sex. We as parents are not gullible enough to think it just wont happen, we know it will. It is our jobs as parents to do our best to not just hand you over our bedrooms and a box of condoms and say have at it. To me it doesn't matter if I were to know my child was having sex with a boy, I am still not going to let her sleepover or vacation with him, I am not going to offer her on a silver platter the right to have sex. I know I cant prevent what happens when I am not around, but to hand her the keys and tell her have fun, that is just poor parenting.Parental advice help :)?
You sound very immature to me. Are you still in school?? because that would make a huge difference to me. I see that you are 18, are you a responsible 18 year old. Do you have a job? I think you need to prove to your mom that you may only be 18 but you can handle responsibilities. If you do not have a job, get one. If you are still in school, make sure you are doing all of your homework and school work and that your grades are good. By the way, this may not be popular in today's society, but you do not NEED to have sex. You are only 18 and have the rest of your life for that. You need to establish a good relationship before moving on to that point. Good Luck!
Your mom is being a good parent. If my daughter told me she already had sex I wouldn't make me MORE likely to let her do things such as ';sleep over'; with the boyfriend. You aren't being unfairly treated. When you're 18 you can do whatever you want. Respect your mom.
The last thing you want to do in your case is to tell your mom you already had sex. She's not trusting you right now because she thinks your going to have sex, now imagine if she knows you'll have sex.





....anyway chances are if she let you, you would have sex...
How old are you? how long have you been with your bf? these are both big issues that I would have to consider before letting a child of mine go on holiday with their partner. DO NOT tell your mum your sleeping with them that would make things worse. You could say that you really love and respect each other and offer to have separate rooms.
That's hard to say. That all depends on your mother.


She could act like WTF does it matter now, you already had sex and let you go. Or she could be very angry with you and lock you in your room.





Only your mother will know how she will react.
uh, no that will not help at all.





you really have to prove that she can trust you to make the choice not to do it.





but in reality, I don't know any sane parent who would let their kid spend the night with their ';significant other';
Um, I don't know, she may be like ';OMG my baby is having sex'; and get mad and not let u go, or it could be the complete opposite. It's kind of tricky, how old are u anyway?
hmm if u tell her you've already had sex she might freak and not let you go anywhere with anyone but that depends on how old you are. Tell her there are other people going and maybe she'll let you
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that would make it worse she wouldnt let you date him anymore and would question you alot more when you say your going out etc
Tell her that you are not mature enough to not sleep with your boyfriend yet.
the opposite that would make her not even let you see him
That will probably make it worse. Just promise her you wont and ask why she doesnt trust you.