Very Confused, need some advice/help?.......?

ok, as ive established many times before, im a 14 year old gay male but ive been questioning that lately. ive recently been having conversations with a female online and we talked about what we would do if one of us was with another and that we love each other, all that kinda lovey duby stuff and i was and still am enjoying it. im beginning to think im bisexual or its just my raging teenage hormones. i've never had a relationship with another male before but i enjoy gay porn and i could see myself with another male later on but i could also see myself with another woman. i wouldnt enjoy sex with another woman as much as i would wth a man but its not like having sex with another woman is totally disgusting for me. i know that most of what i say will change once ive had sex but for now, that's how i feel. i guess what im trying to ask is if im bisexual, gay, or i should just wait for my raging hormones to die down a bit and make my decision once ive had sex with another male or female?Very Confused, need some advice/help?.......?
pray about it.Very Confused, need some advice/help?.......?
Almost had the same experience.Time will help you answer that.
It's rarely an all-or-nothing thing. Most people are at least a little bit of each. And at 14, hormones are everything. I felt the same as you at 14. I even wanted to have intercourse, but at the same time I was only really turned on by guys. Give it time, don't rule anything out, and for gosh sakes don't pigeon hole yourself. You're a unique individual. Give yourself time and experience to find out who that is.
You are probably bi but test to see if you are ot gay. Ask a girl out and see if you like her sexually if not you are gay.
Being with a dude is a sin, being with a female is acceptable. I don't know if you believe in God, but choosing to be gay, and you are choosing because you're choosing to stimulate those desires by watching gay porn, is a sin and the Bible says homosexuals will NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES go to Heaven unless they repent and reject the lifestyle.
So who says you have time limits on your decision? Just enjoy. and play safely.
You will need, at some point, to have sex with both to see which you want the most. Remember that bi-sexual often comes in classifications such as....(90% gay--10% straight)---or (60% gay---40% straight)---or even (50%Gay and 50% straight.) You will not know for sure where you stand untill you have experienced both sexes several times....then the numbers will become obvious to you. I am not condoning sex here at your age--but at some stage you will know. My guess is that what you most desire in your dreams---will be the thing you most desire later on...Good luck. You are loved.
First of all, if you are only 14, slow down! Geez! I mean I have never heard of a 14 year old watching gay porn. when I was 14 I was still playing like I was 7. Just ENJOY your early years. Finish High School first and then worry about being bi or what.
How you feel is how you feel.Dont deprive yourself of becoming a stupid clishe. I'm not saying what your asking is stupid but you are you and i if you feel that you are most likely comfortable with relations with both male and female then your bi. But dont worry i'm bi. so your not alone.
well;i am a gay white male;and you can spend some special times with me;get in touch;or you can get someone;male or female;that you think or know is gay/bi;to come over for dinner;study times;and a sleep over;and enjoy yourself;or you can keep your tool in the closet;be or act stright until you are 18;then come out of the closet;if you think you are bi;invite someone over;like before;enjoy their company;always meet people with an open mind;have a nice day.end.
i dont think the label matters in the end. just deal with what you like as it comes who cares what it is called.
whoa kid, slow down. you are only 14 years old. give it some time . don't put pressure on yourself to decide this issue right now.relax and enjoy being young and having lots of time to figure it out. and when you are a little older if this question hasn't answered itself i would strongly recommend professional help.even at 36 i needed help.
Don't try to figure out which label fits you. Just be yourself. In time, you will find the person that makes you happy and you will discover love. You have identified yourself as a ';gay'; male, so apparently you know how you feel in your heart. Too often the case is that gay people want to deny who they really are and live a life of misery trying to be something that they are not. But at your age, it is not uncommon for a person to have same-sex relationships and then later marry a woman. I am gay too and I experimented with female friends. It is ok to have the feelings that you are. One thing that you may want to do is a mental exercise where you picture yourself ten or twenty years from now. Try to see your life as you want it to be. The house, the car, the job and then try to picture who you are with that makes you happy. One thing though, don't let people try to tell you it's just a phase you will grow out of it. You might be gay and there is nothing wrong with that. God loves us all the same. Shakespeare said it best: ';This above all, to thine ownself be true';. Good luck to you, my friend.
Relax. Your 14. You have all the rest of your life to worry about stuff. Enjoy being a kid and just love whoever you love and dont worry about putting a label on it. Over time you will learn who and what turns you on the most and you can take it from there. Whats that new term? Metrosexual? Be that for now untill you make up your mind one way or the other. Whatever you do relax and enjoy it.
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AT THIS TIME IN YOUR LIFE JUST GO WITH THE FLOW





I'M NOT SAYING YOU ARE TO YOUNG TO KNOW





BUT YOU ARE TO YOUNG TO WORRY ABOUT IT.





DON'T KNOCK IT TILL YOU TRY IT


JUST WAIT TILL YOU ARE READY.





GOOD LUCK
You are too young to be making ';decisions'; such as this. Maybe you should concentrate on developing relationships based on emotional needs as opposed to sexual needs. Find people who you truly ';connect'; with .. who you enjoy their company and have common interests .. learn to be comfortable and happy in your own company! The sex thing will come later, when you are ready ... for now ... just explore the bountiful gift of learning to be with people .. of all kinds, genders and beliefs. (Masturbation can be your friend at this age! LOL)
Yeah, you're confused alright. Good luck figuring that mess out.
The gay part is your raging hormones, and the gay porn is sure not helping. How's about you give a good ole girl a spin and see how you like it.

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